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120 minutes of screen time for kids. What about your IPhone?

The AAP recommends that children spend no longer than 120 minutes in front of a screen -TV, computer- per day. The goal is to promote active play and increase physical activity. A good strategy is to use those minutes as rewards for time spent in physical activites, completed chores and finished homework.

Sounds simple enough…but as I am writing this note I am thinking of all the children that  I see playing with their parent’s  cell phone.

It used to be that when I entered an exam room I would find a parent reading a book to their young one, or playing simple games, or just cuddleing. Nowadays the child is thumbing through the apps in mom’s cell phone or playing games in his own little device?

And this trend is not happening just at the doctor’s office. You can see it everywhere. Look around and see what families are doing in restaurants, car washes, movie theatres, all over!!!! Pay attention and you will find that adults, teens and children are all looking at a portable screens of some sort instead of looking at each other.

When tempted to check your emails, answer your texts, or just read something funny in your favorite blog remember that your children are watching you and it will be very hard to limit screen time since all they have known so far is the screen of your Iphone.

Playtime is essential for child development

 

What was your favorite game when you were a kid? How did you spend your summer afternoons? I was an only child for the first six years of my life and we lived in an apartment in the city so there was no backyard, or pool, or many friends with whom to share games and active play. I spent a lot of time reading books and my favorite game was to pretend that I was a secret agent solving some kind of mystery. I used to hide behind the washer to exchange messages with other secret agents via a special transmiter made of an old thermoter’s case.

Are your kids overschedule? Do they have enough free time for exploratory play? According to the American Academy of Pediatrics lack of unstructured playtime can exacerbate stress.

As parents we want the best for our children. I clearly remember driving my kids back and forth from T-ball or piano lessons and stressing over my desire to provide them with “well rounded” education. We spent a lot of time in the car and they were stressed too. Perhaps it would have been better to just let them play freely without the pressure of structure and competition…

In a recent news release, lead author Regina Milteer, MD, FAAP said: “using their imaginations, fantasizing, and trying grown up roles helps children take on their fears and create a world they can master.”

Take a second look at your kid’s schedule and cut back a little allowing them the freedom to create their own games. Everyone will benefit from a little time off….

Mission Bay Water Sports Camp

Mission Bay Water Sports Camp is a great way to introduce your children to water sports. It was a very fun experience for Mason, my 4 year old son. I got goose bumps when I saw him set sail with his friends on a sail boat for the first time. The children also enjoyed kayaking and paddle boards and they had a whole day to play at the beach. Mason had some swimming lessons prior to the camp, which is recommended, but everyone wears life jackets and the instructors, who are vey nice, ride along and supervise the children very closely.

Mason and his two friends had a blast planning their lunches and making sure they had all their belongings together for the day ahead. On my days off from work I took my toddler Tyler on a paddle board, played at the beach and realized how lucky I was to have this precious time with my boys.

  • Ages 4 and up
  • Cost: $225.00. See web site for deals. $99.00 through Sign on San Diego
  • Some swim ability necessary. All children wear life jackets.
  • Pack a lunch, towel and sunscreen.
  • Plenty to do there while you wait
  • AM and PM sessions available.

The Watersports Camp, 858-539-2003, Official Website, Peninsula
The Watersports Camp is an exciting and fun day-camp sponsored by the Peninsula
Family YMCA and held at SDSU’s and UCSD’s Mission Bay Aquatic Center.
http://www.watersportscamp.com/